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Tamra Choose is as soon as once more doing what she does greatest: deflecting.
In a latest interview with Further, the Actual Housewives of Orange County star accused Gretchen Rossi of “taking part in sufferer” and dredging up the previous — however based mostly on what we’ve seen, it appears like Tamra’s the one caught in rewind.
Whereas Tamra insists she’s making an attempt to maneuver ahead, her commentary paints a distinct image. As an alternative of proudly owning her half within the long-standing drama, she’s fast to level fingers, and Gretchen’s not having it.
“All she would do is discuss concerning the previous… and convey it up,” Tamra complained about Gretchen. “I mentioned to her, from the get-go, I’m like, ‘I’m greater than keen to maneuver ahead with you,’ and I actually needed to. I believed that we might, however all she desires to do is discuss concerning the previous and act like a sufferer and I’m identical to, ‘I’m not doing this anymore.’”
However let’s be actual, when somebody refuses to acknowledge their position up to now, it’s fairly handy to accuse the opposite particular person of being caught in it.
Tamra went on to say, “Nothing good comes out of like rehashing outdated stuff and being caught,” including, “I don’t even know what I had for breakfast this morning. You need me to speak about what I did 15 years in the past?”
Besides… isn’t she the one rehashing it in each interview?
And naturally, she topped it off with the last word Tamra-ism: “I’m like, cease taking part in sufferer. Transfer ahead.”
Heather Dubrow, then again, took a extra balanced method, saying, “I used to be very excited to have Gretchen again, and I believed she was a very good addition.” When requested concerning the pressure, she added, “It’s at all times tough while you’re in a pal group and these two have friction… you don’t wish to begin making groups and you realize, dividing the group like that so it turns into difficult, the best way to navigate the friendships.”
In different phrases: Tamra’s not precisely making it simple.
Let’s be clear, Gretchen Rossi has each proper to carry up the previous if it hasn’t been resolved. That’s not “taking part in sufferer.” That’s known as setting boundaries and asking for accountability.
Possibly Tamra ought to attempt it someday.
